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How Long Will You Let
Your Past Hold Your Future Hostage?

Transform trauma into triumph with proven strategies that have helped hundreds reclaim their power and live the life they deserve.

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Survivors Helped

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Published Books

12

Steps to Freedom

From Broken to Breakthrough

My journey from trauma survivor to healer - and why I'm passionate about helping YOU reclaim your power.

Wendell Holmes

Wendell Holmes

Trauma Recovery Coach & Author

Host of "Everything Self-Love and Recovery"

"I know what it feels like to be trapped by your past."

I survived sexual trauma, battled addiction, experienced relapse, and felt completely broken. For years, shame, silence, and fear controlled my life. I thought healing was impossible.

But I also know what it's like to break through. Through my own healing journey and spiritual awakening, I discovered the strategies that truly work. The moment "You Love You" revealed itself to me during a morning journaling session, I knew my purpose was to help others find that same freedom.

Now, as a transformational coach and author of 3 books on trauma recovery, I've helped 100+ people reclaim their power and transform their lives.

"If I can heal, so can you. This isn't just coachingβ€”it's your breakthrough."

Your Path to Healing & Transformation

Choose the right starting point for your journey - from free resources to comprehensive transformation programs.

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Free 5-Step Guide

Start your healing journey with our proven 5-step framework. Learn the hidden trauma patterns keeping you stuck and discover breakthrough techniques for deep healing.

  • Hidden trauma pattern recognition
  • Inner child connection technique
  • Emotional release strategies
  • Daily self-love practices

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12-Step Trauma Recovery Program

The comprehensive transformation journey. Go deeper than the free guide with our complete 12-step system designed for lasting healing and post-traumatic growth.

  • 12-week guided email program
  • Deep trauma processing exercises
  • Radical forgiveness framework
  • Complete transformation roadmap

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1-on-1 Coaching

Get personalized support with private coaching sessions. Work directly with Wendell to address your unique trauma history and create your custom healing plan.

  • Private one-on-one sessions
  • Personalized healing strategies
  • Direct support from Wendell
  • Accountability & guidance
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Group Workshops

Heal in community with others on the same journey. Experience the power of shared healing, collective wisdom, and supportive accountability.

  • Live group healing sessions
  • Community support system
  • Peer accountability
  • Affordable group pricing
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Resources for Your Healing Journey

Dive deeper with my published books and weekly podcast episodes on trauma recovery and self-love.

Four Powerful Strategies

Four Powerful Strategies to Heal from Trauma

Kindle: FREE Print: $12.99

Evidence-based strategies that have helped hundreds break free from trauma's chains.

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Self-Love Blueprint

The Self-Love Blueprint

Kindle: FREE Print: $12.99

A comprehensive guide to building unshakeable self-love and empowerment after trauma.

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Trauma Breakthrough

The Trauma Breakthrough Book

Kindle: FREE Print: $30.00

The complete guide to healing the past, reclaiming power, and transforming your life.

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Everything Self-Love and Recovery

Join me weekly for in-depth conversations about healing, self-love, and transformation. Real talk, practical strategies, and inspiration for your journey.

Real Stories, Real Transformations

Hear from survivors who've walked the path from pain to power and discovered their breakthrough.

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Working with Wendell as my coach has been a game-changer. His insightful guidance and unwavering support helped me navigate through childhood trauma issues and make a major career transition with confidence and clarity.

Marcus T.

Career Professional, New York

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I encourage you to dive into the materials presented on this site. The 12-step program changed my perspective on life completely. I finally feel like I have control over my healing journey.

David R.

12-Step Program Graduate

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For the first time in years, I feel like I have a roadmap out of the pain. Wendell's compassion comes through every page of his work. He's lived it, and that authenticity makes all the difference.

James K.

Book Reader & Workshop Participant

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12

Steps to Freedom

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